Celebrate your Relationship Commencement and Renewals and Reciprocations

A renewable relationship allows the Relationship Agreement to be celebrated many times and in many ways which is very romantic. With a Relationship Agreement you can still enjoy having a reception, a honeymoon and a ring if you wish. There is no need to forego these as the new relationship should be celebrated. A marriage is only celebrated once and is void of ongoing pivotal commitment celebrations. Typically an ongoing renewable relationship is renewed annually or bi-annually (as in gay liaisons) or every five years, with optional fanfare and festivities and publicly or privately with a fresh or reciprocated consideration in the form of a new or reciprocated troth of money or a material item of value.

Entry into an RA by the two persons should, as said, be followed by some form of public or private event to mark the occasion. This could be a dinner, a party or a reception and friends should be invited to celebrate the event. Each time there is a renewal or reciprocation and the RA renewed there should be another such event for friends to attend and to mark the event as something special. Friends should see your example and be encouraged to mark their own commencement and renewals of their own relationship agreements commitments with a party to which they can invite you both and others. If the event is to be kept private a trip could be taken or a special evening held to commemorate the new commitment.


Relationship (Perel) Agreement to be honoured and taken seriously or consequences apply. 

A Relationship Agreement is a formal structure for a relationship to give the relationship greater quality and commitment an element of security and suspense and heightened excitement.

Too often, in nearly 50% of cases, marriages end up in a messy unpleasant divorce and assets are at risk and there may be maintenance to pay. It has often been said that there needs to be a complete overhaul in the concept of marriage which can, in many cases, end in minor or major personal disaster for two people and of the amorphous uncommitted undefined concept of the relationship. An RA avoids these outcomes and provides much needed definition.

With a Relationship Agreement there is no risk of a messy divorce, no legal costs, no loss of assets. If the RA is not renewed, rolled over or reciprocated the relationship terminates at a pre-agreed time and there is a cordial parting of the ways and it is always painless and inexpensive. After all if the relationship terminates you have both given it a try and experience has proven that one person does not wish to be with the other so there is no practical point in trying to continue if all is lost.

The only money you stand to lose is the bond should there be no renewal.If, however, it is agreed that the relationship arrangement should continue then the RA should be either renewed, rolled over or reciprocated and the bond reciprocated or a new bond issued.

Once the Relationship Agreement has been entered into and the troth passed hands the relationship is full on at 100%. Prior to the agreement a partner, probably the women, may have said "no sex without commitment" that is no sex without an agreement but now she should say once commitment is in place "but once we have done the agreement you can have all the sex you like anytime, anyplace, no restrictions, as long as you like, as per the agreement. It is my duty to please you and your duty to satisfy me. That's the deal; that's our love deal, our love contract."

On the other hand those seeking to have serial relationships may enter into a succession of legitimate relationship agreements with a various suitors or suitees with total commitment for a pre-defined agreed period, such as two to three months, going from partner to partner rather than committing indefinitely to one in their ongoing search for either the ultimate mate or just excitement and abandonment with honour. Such people may find they are always in demand with new prospective suitors awaiting and bidding for them at the conclusion of a period. Being always in demand from a fresh suitor should serve to keep their current partner on his/her best performance, in the hope of a renewal or even a reciprocation, in order to avoid a loss of partner and bond. It can prove extremely exciting and electrifying as renewal/reciprocation time approaches.

Fans of movie, sports and music stars could even do a true love on offer Relationship Agreement to send to their idols or to put on their bedroom walls. A copy could be posted or emailed to your idol to autograph.

The term when two people enter into a relationship agreement is that they get "RAllied", not married and the shortened version of a personal relationship agreement is a "perel" agreement. If you do the right thing and abide by the agreement you won't be in peril. Instead you will have a very happy time and get what you want, for a while, or many times or forever. To be involved in a personal relationship agreement is to be "perelized". If you do the wrong thing then at the end of the term you will be in peril of getting terminated or "gellied", symbolized by the giving of a packet of jelly or serving jelly for dessert, as one's just desserts, (perhaps as a warning, reminder or admonition) just before renewal/ or non renewal.

The Relationship Agreement does not cover the issues raised by having children. Couples considering having children should take this into account when setting the length of the term for the RA. Typically the term of an RA where children are planned should be some 15 - 25 years before renewal. If the other person will not agree to entering into an RA with you for an extended period when children are being considered you should reconsider whether to have children with them as they may not intend to commit to hanging around for long or having you around for long. An RA does not interfere with entitlements to child support.

For those concerned whether a Relationship Agreement is scriptural as St Paul said of marriage in the bible "be not unequally yoked". So he is saying one must be yoked equally and equality is defined by reference to the RA which has terms which are binding upon each party to to the RA. A marriage where one had distinct and unfair advantages over the other is not scriptural. A concurrent RA is an asset and adds a missing qualifying therapeutical scripturaldimension to a marriage. An RA does not detract from a marriage although it can quite adequately operate apart from marriage.
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